Edifications of one mother (for my Kamronbek)

You are growing unexpectedly fast and I am not about your age… Your personality is building up in a way that you are understanding way more than required for your age. Understanding in terms of analyzing the situation/people/things and reacting accordingly, just the way you always follow my gaze to identify whether I am sad or happy and try to bring jokes to see the joy on my face when you find me sad. I am really proud of your sincerity to put efforts to show your care. This makes me both excited and worried at a time. Excited to know that you are way brighter and worried to understand that your delicate soul might face difficulties in today’s world, just because you can see farther and feel deeper than required. On this note, I want to give you some edifications for you to read whenever you require and want to, as I am not going to be a nagging mother always trying to teach you how to live. You will certainly have and follow many others but those mentioned are the ones will help you to live YOUR life with YOUR pure heart.

Please remember:

As you grow you will be meeting many people… They are all different and most important they are not the same as you are. They have their own vision and mission in this world forming their own personality and you have to accept all they way they are

Be open-hearted but don’t open your soul to all

Be a listener. When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know but if you listen, you may learn something new that’s why God gave us one mouth that closes and two ears that don’t

Be a giving person as you have two hands: one to help yourself and the second to others

Nobody is permanent so only few will be there for you and those who are there for you are just for as long as possible, once again nothing is permanent in this life

You will be meeting two types of people mostly. The ones – who build you up and the ones – who tear you down. But at the end, you will thank them both

Live the life in full, follow your desires and dreams.

Make decisions, value them and be responsible for your decisions.

Don’t be afraid of mistakes. It is okay to make mistakes, as mistakes teach us lessons but not trying leaves regrets.

Don’t skip falling. Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

Never regret. Because at some point this was what you wanted

Think positive, be positive to attract the positive things into your life and always be happy to look beyond the imperfections

Never stop learning as learning is the only thing in mind never exhausts, never fears and never regrets

Travel more as this is the only thing you buy that makes you richer

Most important is to remember that you don’t own anyone in this world and it’s your full right to live the life of your choice.

Don’t forget that I will only be there to support you because I respect your choices, I value your decisions and admire you as an individual.

P.S.: If I ever forget my words and try to follow my own ego by enforcing my “motherhood rights” don’t hesitate to remind my words to bring me to my senses.

Love you to bits,

Your mama.


Photo credit: Guzal Mirkomilova Instagram: @guzaldxb_photographer



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